Coping with Miscarriage after IVF: Dr.Gulati's Expert Guidance

Patient: Dr. Gulati, I’m really devastated. I finally got pregnant through IVF, but I recently had a miscarriage. I don’t know how to cope with this.

Dr. Gulati: I’m so sorry to hear that. Miscarriages are incredibly tough, especially after the journey you’ve been through with IVF. Let’s talk about what happened and how we can help you move forward.

Patient: After the positive pregnancy test, my HCG levels were rising steadily. I was so hopeful. But then, around six weeks, I started bleeding, and the ultrasound showed no heartbeat. It was heartbreaking.

Dr. Gulati: I can imagine how difficult that must have been. Even with close monitoring, sometimes things don’t go as planned. It’s important to understand that the risk of miscarriage is present in any pregnancy, whether it’s natural or through IVF.

Patient: I knew there was a risk, but I thought IVF would make the pregnancy more secure. How common is miscarriage after IVF?

Dr. Gulati: The risk of miscarriage remains similar, whether you conceive naturally or through IVF. For natural conceptions, the risk is around 10–15%, and it’s similar for IVF pregnancies. Miscarriages are, unfortunately, a natural part of the reproductive process.

Patient: It’s so hard to accept. I feel like I’ve failed again. First, we couldn’t conceive naturally, and now this.

Dr. Gulati: It’s completely normal to feel that way, but it’s important to remember that miscarriages are not a reflection of your worth or abilities. Many infertile couples struggle with self-esteem and feelings of inadequacy. Allow yourself to grieve and understand that this isn’t your fault.

Patient: I’m struggling with that. It feels like such a major setback. How do I move forward from here?

Dr. Gulati: Healing takes time, and it’s okay to seek support from friends, family, or a counselor. Give yourself permission to grieve, and don’t rush the process. When you’re ready, we can discuss your options for trying again. Remember, every journey is unique, and many couples go on to have successful pregnancies after a miscarriage.

Patient: Thank you, Dr. Gulati. I appreciate your support and understanding.

Dr. Gulati: “You’re very welcome! If you need more details or personalized guidance, feel free to visit my website at www.eggdonors4all.com.”

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